If there is anything that I have learned from my role models, it’s to be yourself. No matter how crazy and goofy that is. You don’t need to model yourself after someone, you just need to be you. You don’t need to make your house how someone else’s house is made, you need to make it fit you and your personality.
Growing up isn’t just throwing on your big girl panties and facing the day and getting bills paid. It’s taking charge of yourself and your life. Realizing your wrongs and your rights.. Fixing what needs to be fixed and doing what you need to do to better yourself for the rest of your life.
Sometimes we get lost in the little crap. The things that don’t really matter in retrospect.. Things like, ‘who said what about me’, ‘i don’t agree with how she does this or that’. In all honesty, does it really matter? Is it worth your time or energy? Why waste your thoughts and words on something negative and petty when there are much more important things out there. Sometimes, I wish I could scream that from the roof tops, so someone out there would get it.
We are here to support one another. Not constantly tear each other down. Yes, I know there will be times for constructive criticism, but there is a time and place and way to talk about it. The internet isn’t here for bashing one another.
Grow up and show it.
I’ve hit that point in my pregnancy that everyone complains about. The achey back, the baby in the ribs, the constant tiredness. I’m trying to grin and bear it, but being at 32 weeks with a child that is measuring 35 weeks, I just don’t know what the hell I’m supposed to do these last 8 weeks. That’s like torture. My god. oh well